This is pretty basic and EASY to differentiate. On my grade level I started using the term, "Use or Lose" whenever I share something. I don't want anyone to feel that my feelings are hurt if they don't need it, want it, or if it's just not their style. (YES! I do belong to PPA--People Pleasers Anonymous.) Anyway..."Use or Lose" has kinda stuck with us when anyone sees something cool they want to share.
So, I hope you can use, but feel free to lose it if you can't.
Together for Our Kids,